Being ‘allowed’ inside a woman’s body is one of the biggest honors for a man. And when she gives her consent, accessing her sacred space, her body, and her energy should always be done with the utmost care and intention.
Her vulva is both delicate and holy, the origin of all life. She is the portal to life through which we all have passed. We all have moved through her warm and nurturing channel, so let’s express our gratitude.
S3x is an exchange of energy. We should only enter her sacredness to convey, cocreate, and amplify love. This doesn’t mean that we can not be primal or animalistic anymore. But her vulva is not a place for you to dump your suppressed emotions, shame, or rage. Her tissue is permeable. She soaks up everything you’ll bring into her.
So, instead of releasing your unresolved pain into her, give her your love, potency, passion, and devotion. Allow her to absorb your heart through your cxck. She is vast and powerful. She is the gateway to existence. And men will never fully comprehend her intricacies.
This would be fully okay if we honored her enigma and allowed her to lead us on a path that is different from what we know and that will surpass our wildest imagination.
We owe it to the female body to respect and worship her. We men have been taught to s3xualize her sacred territory for centuries. I certainly have. I objectified women, s3xualized their bodies, mistreated them, and poured my own repressed wounds into them.
I didn’t know how to do it differently because I feared being kicked out of my tribe of peers. And, how irresponsible and escapist it might sound, I needed these experiences to eventually learn and analyze my own and other men’s behavior.
I believe that we as men must embrace our inner feminine. Accept her as she is. She’s yearning eagerly to be heard behind the exterior walls we’ve proudly put up to hide behind in our shame and machismo. Following stupid and destructive statements such as “man up,” “stop whining,” or “don’t be whipped”.
We need to make the change. We need to speak our minds. We need to be more open and expressive. This doesn’t mean that we can not be strong and masculine anymore. We can still be determined and bullheaded, hard when we need to, but also gentle and pliable, coming from the heart.
We must unite with women and share our differences and similarities. We must communicate effectively. And to do so, we first need to understand ourselves.
This means we must dive deep into the places we’d want to avoid: the shame and jealousy, the rage of all the moments we were not respected and seen, the hate and anxiety, and the tears we haven’t shed.
We have to look at the snapshots of all the moments when we made ourselves small or when others belittled us. Listen to all the voices that we blindly took over. Examine the imprints that do not serve us anymore but rather hold us back. Explore the false roles we play and how they mask our fearless and spirited sovereignty.
We must grab ourselves by the balls, erect our spines, soften our bellies, and ground back into our hearts.
If you want to respect women, you must respect yourself first, brother. She is the land, the soil. You are the seed that cocreates existence with her.
~Bas Waijers Baumann
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