His Orgasm: Making It Happen vs. Being Overwhelmed

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Women have a dizzying array of orgasms. But you know all about that. What about men?

We don’t have nearly the variation you have. We also don’t have as big a range of intensity; okay and great are not that far apart. But there is one way in which we have two kinds of orgasms. There are those we make happen, and those that overwhelm us.

Making It Happen:

He does something to increase stimulation, so he comes. Perhaps you’re having intercourse, and he knows you are about to climax, so he speeds up to try to come at the same time. Or you tell him you’re not going to come that way, and to go ahead. Or the sad one, he is worried he has to finish quickly so you don’t get upset.

Overwhelmed:

He’s enjoying sex, be it intercourse, your hand, or your mouth. He knows he is close, but rather than making it happen, he relaxes and waits for it to happen. If this happens during intercourse when he’s trying not to come, he’s not happy about it. But if he is free to enjoy the experience, this kind of orgasm is amazing. He gets closer and closer, building till his body takes him over the edge.

Of the two, an overwhelmed orgasm is far more enjoyable. You can help him come this way, if you’re willing. When you use your hand or your mouth, don’t be in a hurry to finish him. Slow down as he gets close. Tell him to just enjoy and wait for it. You can do the same during intercourse. If you have already come, or will do so in some other way later, encourage him to take is slow. If you really want to bless him, get on top and tell him to lie back, relax and do nothing to hurry his climax. When he gets close, slow down and let him be overwhelmed.

~ Paul – I’m XY, and a loving wife can make sex amazing for her guy

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