Semen is the root

Semen is the root. If a man is full of guilt
regarding sex, he cannot be powerful, he cannot rebel. His sense of guilt will keep him always down.

Even when you create a relationship of love or of anger with a person, still it is all a play
of the mind. How can the other help? When you take someone in your embrace, what
your hands hold is only flesh and bones. Is that any more valuable than a pillow? In the
final analysis, how can flesh and bones and skin be regarded as more valuable than a
pillow? It is just your idea that the other is present which makes it possible for you to
spread your love over someone. What is the difference between hitting on somebody’s
head and hitting a pillow? You find a difference only because you assume that the other
is there and the pillow is nobody. The only difference is that the other responds, and the
pillow does not — that’s all!
If you embrace somebody with love and they return the embrace, you find it convenient
to love that person, because the response is exciting and enlivens you. So a chain is
created. As far as you are concerned, the problem with the pillow is that you remain
alone. The pillow will not respond; you will have to create everything yourself. But this
difficulty is not confined to sexual feelings, it applies equally to anger or to any other
feeling. Within a short time — just a few days — you will not be hampered by this
problem, and then you will laugh because you will come to see that all the people you
have up to now embraced were really no more than pillows for you. They too were just
mediums.
There are several difficulties in love becoming your meditation in your own aloneness.
The difficulties are of conditionings. There are things you have been taught ever since
you were a child, and they will create a hindrance. For example, if a man expresses his
sexual passion on a pillow it is quite possible that he will ejaculate. So there is fear. You
have been taught to regard the spilling of semen as dangerous. Since childhood you have
been taught that even to let fall a single drop of semen is a great loss of life energy.
Hindus believe that a single drop of semen is equivalent to forty days’ meals! This is
simply a lie. There is not even a trace of truth in it — it is just a trick to frighten children,
and sure enough, children become afraid

But of course, the adults are also afraid. In a lifetime of seventy years, a normal man can
easily have sex four thousand times, and with each ejaculation anything between ten
million and a hundred million sperms are ejected from his body. So if each and every
sperm were to find its way into the womb, the result could equal the population of the
world. A single man and woman could produce four billion people! This semen is not
accumulated within your body, it is not stored so that the balance of semen is reduced if
some is consumed. It is constantly in the process of being created. As your body takes in
food and oxygen the semen is created.
The findings of modern Western medical science will certainly astonish you; they are
very different and opposite to what you have been told. They maintain that the more a
man uses his semen, the longer his manhood remains. If a man stops using his semen, if
he stops having intercourse, his semen will gradually disappear. Because as long as you
are using the semen your whole organism will be involved in producing more. If the body
no longer needs to be engaged in this process because you stop ejaculating semen, the
body’s capacity to produce semen will gradually decline. This will look quite
contradictory: the more one goes into intercourse the longer he remains capable of
intercourse; the less one goes into intercourse the sooner his capacity to go into it is
finished. So the Western doctors say that there is a higher probability of living a longer
life if you continue having sex even up to your old age, your sixties and seventies — even
in your nineties! — because then your body will remain fresh. If some semen leaves your
body new semen is created, and the new semen is fresh, vigorous. The old semen grows
stale and inert, and the body too falls into a state of inertia.
We always find it amazing when we read in the Western newspaper that such-and-such a
ninety-year-old man is getting married. We cannot understand what fun there is in getting
married at this age. But ninety years is not too old for a Western man to enjoy sex, and
the only reason that this is so because in the West they have a different concept — and one
that is much closer to the truth — about semen, than we have.
And this concept applies to all aspects of life. The body organs you want to keep in good
condition, keep using them. If a man goes on walking right into his old age his legs will
remain strong; it is only when he stops using them that they grow weak. If a man uses his
head right up till his last breath, then his intelligence will remain as fresh as ever; but if
he stops using it, then his brain will become inert.
The life of all organs depends on their usage, on their being active. The organs you use
will stay functional longer, and the seminal organs are no exception. The law of the body
is that the more you use it the longer it will live. But when you become afraid and stop
using your body, then it begins to die. And there is a vicious circle in this, because the
man who is afraid will use his body less, and so his body will become weaker. And
because it is weak the man will become even more afraid and contract even further, until
in the end he extinguishes his very life.

Nowhere To Go But In
Chapter #12

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